Why SwipeMeHarder Exists// The modern relationship operating system
We're building a collective of experts, creators, and systems thinkers to debug the modern relationship lifecycle. No outrage, no quick fixes, just systematic solutions for systematic problems.
The Problem
# Current system state
• Men stuck in acquisition-mode thinking
• Swipe-based dopamine dependency
• Surface-level "hacks" over systems
• Missing maintenance protocols
• Outrage over solutions
Our Solution
# New system architecture
• 9-phase lifecycle framework
• Expert collective knowledge base
• System-level debugging tools
• Community-driven pattern recognition
• Clear upgrade paths
The Collective// Building the knowledge base together
Experts & Creators
Relationship systems thinkers, content creators, and coaches joining forces to build better frameworks.
status: accepting_applications
Community Members
Men navigating different lifecycle phases, sharing patterns and contributing to the knowledge base.
status: early_access
System Builders
Developers and designers helping create tools and frameworks for relationship debugging.
status: collaborating
The Vision// Building in public, shipping fast
Phase 1: Foundation
• Building the expert collective
• Launching core frameworks
• Creating initial content systems
• Establishing the community
Phase 2: Expansion
• Developing advanced tools
• Growing the creator network
• Launching merchandise
• Scaling the community
Phase 3: Evolution
• Building comprehensive tooling
• Creating educational programs
• Expanding global reach
• Developing advanced features