Engineering Blog

Deep dives into relationship patterns, anti-patterns, and practical systems thinking.

Debugging First Dates Like a Production Issue

Patterns

Treat your first date like a system under load and identify bottlenecks early.

Common Relationship Anti-patterns and How to Refactor Them

Anti-patterns

From premature optimization to cargo culting, spot and fix the classics.

System Blog Status: IN_DEVELOPMENT

Expected: Q1 2024